I just had a brief discussion with an Iraqi yesterday. He's solidly of the mind that the Iranian strikes were a painful but much needed step to long term betterment of the Middle East. He stays in contact with family still in Iraq. Lots of Trump supporters there and we are being fed lies here much of the time.
He is quite hopeful for the first time in a long time.
Thought this would help you come to terms with your faux grief.
Please seat yourself.
I like the very things you hate.